To all the people we WOULD have invited to our wedding: All of our family All of our friends All of our co-workers The people we love The people who love us Don't get me wrong: I love ATTENDING weddings. I love BEING IN weddings. I love the groom's face when he sees his beautiful bride walking towards him for the first time. I love the vows. I love the first kiss. I am a #TFK4Life (True Fat Kid for Life) so I love ALL the food, sweets, cake, and repeat #seconds. I love the speeches and toasts. I also love the all the dancing. For real. This girl will moonwalk, floss, worm, and line dance till the sparkler send-off or until I'm being summoned to join the clean-up crew. I also recognize that every single detail of all of my favorite weddings was chosen and placed in the ceremony and reception INTENTIONALLY. That's what makes each wedding so uniquely special and fun. Those of you that know me...
Since everyone keeps asking me, "How's #fUnemployment?" I want to take this blog post opportunity to share some of the things that I'm learning. 1. There is power in 10 minutes of intentional practice. During long blocks of studying, I take intentional 10 minute breaks to practice different hobbies and skills I want to fine tune. I literally set a 10 minute timer and practice one of the skills on my list and even color a box for every time I invest 10 minutes in that particular activity. “Mindset change is not about picking up a few pointers here and there. It's about seeing things in a new way. When people...change to a growth mindset, they change from a judge-and-be-judged framework to a learn-and-help-learn framework. Their commitment is to growth, and growth takes plenty of time, effort, and mutual support.” - Carol Dweck I have noticed that 10 minutes adds up, especially when the time is FOCUSED on something specific. For example, instead of ju...